I say that, but the woman to whom I lost my virginity was SIGNIFICANTLY more experienced than I (or probably anyone I may ever meet again). Personally, I love to be taught, but I can see why a number of men like to believe they're the ones in control.

I see one's sexual abilities just like any other skill. It's all taught. Some are more talented than others, but in the end, it's better to keep and open mind and realise that we're all students.

The way I see it: Teach people to be a better lovers, and everyone wins. There are no losers. It's only when people let their egos take the best of them when there's a conflict... and lots of unenjoyable sex ;)