just the links, ma'am, just the links

[chimerically]

Why are there so few girl characters in kids' movies? And what's up with "purity balls" and this obsession with "naive abstinence"? (I actually have some ideas about where the whole virginity obsession comes from, but I'll save that for another rant.)



That is all.

Comments

Re: virginity

[lbchewie.livejournal.com]

I say that, but the woman to whom I lost my virginity was SIGNIFICANTLY more experienced than I (or probably anyone I may ever meet again). Personally, I love to be taught, but I can see why a number of men like to believe they're the ones in control.

I see one's sexual abilities just like any other skill. It's all taught. Some are more talented than others, but in the end, it's better to keep and open mind and realise that we're all students.

The way I see it: Teach people to be a better lovers, and everyone wins. There are no losers. It's only when people let their egos take the best of them when there's a conflict... and lots of unenjoyable sex ;)

Re: virginity

[stridera.livejournal.com]

I love learning (And in this case, I love practicing too ;)

However, while it has never happened to me, I'm sure it would be a MAJOR blow to be told, "My last boyfriend was better." (Althought I would assume most women have better tact than that.)

Either way, I'm content to practice all night long.